Femdom Husband Training: Structured Training

It should not be a mystery by now that what we focus on we draw more of into our experience.  Training a compliant male has ‘fluid’ elements to it, especially in the context of a marriage.  But males are very trainable, and most of them have the ability to learn and retain. Thus, the basic…

Femdom Husband Training: Fantasy, Discouragement and The Ten

Ahhhh…she is the most beautiful, the most sensuous woman in the world and her natural grasp of the power dynamic in their relationship leaves him swooning. The ways she lavishes her dominance on him-the timely paddlings, the constant teasing him in his locked-up state, the use of scolding and whipping at just the right moment,…

Femdom Husband Training: She comes first (…and often as she likes)

Exercising The Ten provides them both with a new perspective on their roles, reinforced daily. And there is ample evidence – experiential, anecdotal and clinical – that delaying or outright preventing his orgasm for extended periods provides benefits to the relationship, adds to her pleasure and comfort (directly and indirectly), increases his diligence in courting…

Femdom Husband Training: His [Expensive] Orgasm

Orgasm control/denial is touched on in The Ten as a add-on, parallel path to training the compliant male.  There is some physiological evidence that the changes in body chemistry of men caused by less frequent orgasms can lead to what the woman may find enjoyable behavior. In her article ‘Courtship Induction and Male Milking‘, Susanne Liu…

Femdom Husband Training: Fantasy and Reality

Ironically, the same social order that raised her with feeling of discomfort in the exercise of power and authority has conditioned him to develop a very highly specific set of fantasies.  These commonly don’t have much to do with reality, and contribute to the confusion both of them feel around the misplaced idea of ‘the…

Femdom Husband Training: ‘But how do I…’

‘The Ten’ is a practical, no frills way to get started in training. And one of the hurdles it addresses is   trepidation stemming from inexperience and overcoming the inertia of a conventional upbringing. But just as importantly, he has to move past his adolescent fantasies and embrace the essence of his submission. There are…

Femdom Marriage: Serving The Queen – 10 Easy Ways To Pleasure Her

“The submissive commits himself to his partner. He strives to meet her needs, make her life easier, and dedicate himself to pleasing her. His partner, in turn, accepts the submission, agrees to be the object of his efforts, and commits to help him learn to satisfy her. Notice that the attributes of the D/S dynamic are not mutual. By virtue…

Femdom Husband Training: Ascendant She – The Ten

The Ten The Ten is intended as a framework for basic training covering an agreed upon period of time, likely between four to six weeks. It is very simple It incorporates a physical component in the form of ten strokes applied to the husbands backside daily for six days each week. The seventh day is…

Femdom Husband Training: Hand Signals

Ideas for the Ascendant She training program – Hand Signals (advanced topic). What would women think and do, if their time was their own again and, with a single hand motion, their man responded and obeyed? Many men would be happier, too. Used in conjunction with The Ten, to be practiced/recited daily makes her well-equipped…